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Wake Up!
By MaryAine Curtis, Transformation Coach & Spiritual Psychology Coach

What DO You Mean “Wake Up”? It means to get in touch with who you are meant to be.

Do you want to look back on  your life and say: “I was afraid to take the leap of faith”?  OR do you want to feel satisfaction with a life well-lived?  You have a choice today, right now!!  I made it to a life well-lived 21 years ago and I make it there again each and every day.

Are you doing what you came here to do?

As long as you believe the stories handed down to you about a woman’s worth and place in life; you’ll remain stuck and unable to tap into your full power and creative ability.  Women do not have to act like men to be strong.  Strength is inside.  A strong woman knows her weakness as well as her strengths.   It’s your spirit and ability to master your own experiences that make you strong.  Waking up is facing unpleasant memories and circumstances; realizing your courage and acknowledging your part in it.  Then you are able to heal so that you can bring out your best qualities and purpose.

The number one most important statement you can make to yourself is this: “I have the power to choose and I have the power to change.”

One of my clients has used her abusive childhood as a stepping stone, to confidently tell her story of courage in overcoming adversity.  On stage it helps her deliver her empowering message and product.  The key is to overcome the trauma (not get stuck in it) and realize your courage in doing so. You can change disempowering beliefs about yourself and have unshakable inner confidence just like she did. If you suffered abuse than I want you to realize that the person was actually afraid of YOUR power.

I know it sounds weird, but it’s true. That father, step-parent, mother, boss, brother, or husband was a chicken-shit bully.  Take a deep breath.

Doesn’t that shift your perspective a little bit?  He/she was afraid of you realizing this and treated you poorly because of his/her fear and low self worth.  Even the wicked witch poisoned Snow White because she was afraid of her beauty.  Is this making sense?  The witch was another bully.

We’re genetically coded for physical attributes; hair, eyes, and body type, but also for emotions.
The generational-emotional impact of DNA is passed down and can be changed from an old belief of being a slave, to a new belief of being in charge of your destiny.  Just remember there is no master without a slave.  A bully is nothing without a victim.

All of the emotions that have been hidden in the back of the proverbial closet or stored in the DNA as a “victim” are passed down for many generations.  You have the choice to break the chains and start claiming your life by waking up to your divine feminine strength.  If you allow feelings of jealousy, anger, procrastination, weight, gambling, shopping, or drinking to rule your life; then you are playing small and being a victim/martyr/slave girl. It’s not comfortable.  So do something to change it today.  

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MaryAine Curtis discusses Making Choices for You!

MaryAine Curtis offers Feng Shui for the Soul and is an Emissary of Change, Spiritual Guide, Master Rapid Eye Technician, Speaker & Visionary. MaryAine Curtis has been helping people professionally as a holistic therapist since 1996. To schedule a Discovery Session with her, call (805) 215-8808 or email her through www.MaryAineCurtis.com

Find out what you really want for this one precious life of yours by calling right now.  Make a choice for YOU.

You can say you are powerful but until you reframe your DNA pattern and KNOW that you are powerful, very little will change.  That’s why lottery winners spend all of their millions in two years or less, because they still feel the same as they always did.  Emotions are the key element in changing the patterns that run your life.

What do you think will happen if you stop making excuses and start exploring the feelings that bring up old memories?  With Return 2 JOY programs, you’ll realize you are more precious than you previously thought.  It’s time to stop accepting unacceptable behavior from your own inner voice or your boss, spouse, and/or the bully in your life.  Wake up to your own inner beauty and purpose.

“I have the power to choose and I have the power to change.  In this power filled moment, I choose love.  I choose joy.  I choose health.  Every cell in my body says “YES” to my choices.  I am transformed.  I am renewed.  I have a life.  I have a future.”